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Are Relatable Characters Important in Books?| Let’s Talk Bookish

Let's Talk Bookish 2025

Hello readers! It’s time for a LTB post. Honestly, I find this topic very interesting because it came up a lot on Booktok in the last few months. I really did not realize that two people can be reading the same book, but also reading it completely differently. It’s so fascinating honestly.

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Prompts: Real life can be a lot. Do you enjoy reading books with high relatability to your past or present situation (i.e. with relatable characters, situations they face, or places they visit) or do you read purely to escape reality? Do you seek out a certain type of read, depending on your head space or mood?


When it comes to reading, I do not read for relatability or escapism, but I have learned in the past few months that many people do.

I feel like the purpose of reading is to grow. I love to gain a new perspective when I read. It’s valuable to me to see the world in a completely different perspective than the one I live in. Reading fiction can significantly increase empathy.

I am by no means saying reading for pure enjoyment is bad, because it’s not. BUT I feel like I can gain a lot from any book.

I also cannot read for escapism. One way to know I am not doing the best mentally is if I am not reading anything. I can’t think about reading if I am struggling. It just feels like I am trying to run from my problems instead of working through them.

People who only read books they can relate to are honestly a bit odd to me sometimes. I’ve seen Booktokers say they can’t read books by black authors because they can’t relate to them, but they also read romances with blue aliens.

I don’t know. Maybe I am just weird, but I can find relatable things in nearly every book I read. Whether it’s a struggle the character goes through or a type of friend they have in their lives.

I personally read to empathize with other experiences outside of my own and I hope I can find something to enjoy along the way. But, I also love a book that’ll make me cry. I don’t mind either one.

What do you guys think? Do you read for relatability?


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9 responses to “Are Relatable Characters Important in Books?| Let’s Talk Bookish”

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  2. People saying they wont read books by Black authors because they cant relate is WILD and racist honestly!

  3. Great post! That comment about readers not being able to read books by BIPOC authors because they “can’t relate” and yet they have no problems reading their alien or monster romances makes me cringe so hard because big yikes! 😬 That’s just really wild to me.

    I do read partially for the escapism but I think that even in that instance, there are always things that I can take away from those reads. Like you said, there’s a lot to gain from any book (even the low brain vibe ones on a smaller scale, haha)! And I also agree that there’s some degree of relatability in most of the books I read too, even in the smallest aspects.

    Thanks for joining LTB this week! 😊

  4. I also like to read books where I can relate to the characters. That’s why I’ve been reading more books with female “golden years” characters!

    1. That is definitely a type of diversity that I don’t see often! Books with characters who aren’t in their 20’s or 30’s are so hard to find unless it’s a mystery/thriller.

      1. Oh, it is a growing age group these days. Probably because us boomers are almost all retired and reading more.

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